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.:.♥.:.♥.:. Boyfriend and Girlfriend Relationship .:.♥.:.♥.:.• In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship, it is strictly forbidden. • Islam emphasizes on marriage as a pre-condition before two heterosexual lovers live together. There is to be no physical relationship before marriage. • Marriage is the only valid or halaal way to indulge in intimacy between a man and a woman.• Love is not going to dates, touching each other physically or something more nasty than it, is forbidden and haraam in Islam.• On the other hand, if love is as you mentioned that you have inclination towards someone and that girl has also inclination towards you and your desire is to marry each other, then try to send your proposal as soon as possible and get marriage date. As a Muslim, you know that having a boyfriend is haraam because it counts as Zina - fornication. Fornication, in easy English, means `sexual sin’. Allah expressly forbids romantic or sexual relationships outside of marriage. When people go against that rule, then you get the typical western society where people play sexual merry-go-round with each other, givi…ng each other STDs, using and abusing each other, and destroying the sacredness of marriage as an institution. You can’t even be sort of engaged to a guy, and then “date” to get to know each other. In Islam, non-Mahram men and women aren’t allowed to be alone together (that includes talking o*!n the phone!), to touch (not even shake hands), or even gaze at each other. It doesn’t matter if the guy you like is Muslim, a great guy and the Prince of England, you can’t date him. Islamic Perspective on Sex: Islam considers sex an essential human need which need not be suppressed, rather satisfied in a proper manner. It is not something looked down upon disdainfully and a thing a person must refrain from.Islam has set certain laws by which it is controlled and through which one can satisfy this need. One is not to satisfy this in an animalistic or lustful uncontrolled manner; it should be satisfied through marriage.The ultimate goal of marriage in Islam is to achieve psychological and emotional stability for both spouses. WAY OUT=================(Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as saheeh by al-Busayri and by Shaykh al-Albaa…ni in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 624) If a man feels some attraction towards a woman whom it is permissible for him to marry her, and vice versa, there is no answer to the problem except marriage…. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.” =====================================In this case it is not permissible for the man to get in touch with the woman or for the woman to get in touch with the man, and say that he wants to marry her. Rather he should tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him. The permissible ways are sufficient and there is no need for haraam means, but we make it hard for ourselves and the shaytaan takes advantage of that.=====================================

.:.♥.:.♥.:. Boyfriend and Girlfriend Relationship .:.♥.:.♥.:.

• In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship, it is strictly forbidden.

• Islam emphasizes on marriage as a pre-condition before two heterosexual lovers live together. There is to be no physical relationship before marriage.

• Marriage is the only valid or halaal way to indulge in intimacy between a man and a woman.

• Love is not going to dates, touching each other physically or something more nasty than it, is forbidden and haraam in Islam.

• On the other hand, if love is as you mentioned that you have inclination towards someone and that girl has also inclination towards you and your desire is to marry each other, then try to send your proposal as soon as possible and get marriage date.

As a Muslim, you know that having a boyfriend is haraam because it counts as Zina - fornication. Fornication, in easy English, means `sexual sin’.

Allah expressly forbids romantic or sexual relationships outside of marriage. When people go against that rule, then you get the typical western society where people play sexual merry-go-round with each other, givi…ng each other STDs, using and abusing each other, and destroying the sacredness of marriage as an institution. You can’t even be sort of engaged to a guy, and then “date” to get to know each other.

In Islam, non-Mahram men and women aren’t allowed to be alone together (that includes talking o*!n the phone!), to touch (not even shake hands), or even gaze at each other. It doesn’t matter if the guy you like is Muslim, a great guy and the Prince of England, you can’t date him.

Islamic Perspective on Sex:
Islam considers sex an essential human need which need not be suppressed, rather satisfied in a proper manner. It is not something looked down upon disdainfully and a thing a person must refrain from.

Islam has set certain laws by which it is controlled and through which one can satisfy this need. One is not to satisfy this in an animalistic or lustful uncontrolled manner; it should be satisfied through marriage.

The ultimate goal of marriage in Islam is to achieve psychological and emotional stability for both spouses.


WAY OUT
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(Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as saheeh by al-Busayri and by Shaykh al-Albaa…ni in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 624) If a man feels some attraction towards a woman whom it is permissible for him to marry her, and vice versa, there is no answer to the problem except marriage…. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.”

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In this case it is not permissible for the man to get in touch with the woman or for the woman to get in touch with the man, and say that he wants to marry her. Rather he should tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him. The permissible ways are sufficient and there is no need for haraam means, but we make it hard for ourselves and the shaytaan takes advantage of that.
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